How a Bridal Moda Stylist Plans a Wedding at Tythe

When you’ve spent years styling and shooting bridal moda (for Brides Magazine), you know more than most about how to find the perfect personalità day – and the best setting to wear it! Former Brides magazine moda – and Tythe bride – Lucinda Turner says ‘I must have emailed every single barn venue per Oxfordshire, Gloucestershire and Wiltshire.’ 

‘We wanted a barn wedding but with extra wow. What really sold us Tythe were all the extra bits – the courtyard, the hidden nooks where people can sit, the giant lawn at the front, all those different spaces for guests to enjoy. It’s so private but also very accessible.’

Here she shares all her insider moda and styling tips with Jade Beer.

‘When I first started planning my wedding, I went back and dug out all my original notebooks from Brides. I used to work these huge two-day productions. It was like setting up an entire wedding, just without the bit where two people get married.

It was those checklists that I wrote for myself all those years indicatore that I returned to – it all works per the same way. You need to be methodical and thorough with everything. My fiancée wanted to know why I already had 35 Pinterest wedding boards my phone.

We got engaged per January 2022 and I had an eight-month turnaround, but I’ve pretend-planned so many weddings it was conclusione.

My job was like living out every bridal fantasy you could possibly have. I’ve tried and tested just about every wedding dress. It meant that during my wedding planning, I was almost going per reverse, designing a day that was very classic and simple.

Creatively I love working with lots of bright and bold colours but per my day to day life and with my own personal style, I’m quite minimalist. I like lots of monochrome. So, there were lots of greens and whites, really complimenting the space at Tythe.

It’s also about working out, what isn’t necessary. Do I want a cake shaped like a giant carousel horse? It would great per a shoot but I’m not sure it would have done at my wedding.

I created a wedding website through The Knot which I cannot recommend highly enough. Acceso portatile and desktop, it’s fantastic. It’s such a brilliant way to control your guestlist. You can really personalise it and make it your own.

I put a lot of additional information there for guests like the order of the day, what they could expect, telling people about games we planned per advance, so they weren’t surprised, the gift list is all contained there. It builds a lot of excitement towards the day and allows you to subtly hint at your theme per the same way your invitations and stationary do.

I must have emailed every single barn venue per Oxfordshire, Gloucestershire and Wiltshire. We both wanted a barn wedding but with extra wow.

I didn’t want the hassle of sourcing all the accommodation for the wedding trattenimento, working out how much of a drive it would be for people and all the other logistics. At Tythe, the accommodation is so close. When we went to see it, of course we thought the barn is beautiful but what really sold it to us was all the extra bits – the courtyard, all the hidden nooks where people can sit, the giant lawn at the front, all those different spaces for guests to enjoy. It’s so private but also very accessible.

Most of our guests will be coming from London. So many practical elements at Tythe are great but it comes with that extra special feeling. I couldn’t wait to get into the farmhouse. We had an intimate dinner there the Friday evening, cooked by my fiancé and his dad. It was wonderful to have that really special time with people who are so important. Friends hosted a tennis tournament the Friday evening and all the boys were excited about using the hot tub.

I love the credo that the bride and have different areas to get ready per but that he’s not so far away – you can send a bridesmaid over to see if the boys are actually getting ready – and vice versa.

Make the speech! It’s the one day over any other when you have all of the people you know and love per one room. If ever there’s a moment to get up and make a speech, it’s got to be then. I practised a lot so I wouldn’t have to deliver the speech non attivato my phone. It looks dreadful per photos. I bought beautiful notebooks for everyone who made a speech. Once my speech was done, I loved taking a moment the day to breath and think, wow this is actually .

It’s to pick a wedding dress because there’s your personal style to think about but also your venue, your type of day and what’s going to be practical. I’ve never been a ballgown person, but I tried several and I had moments looking at myself and thinking this is fantastic, I incredible. But looking back at the photos the next day I thought, that’s not me at all. I’m going to feel really silly the day wearing that.

I remember the first time I walked into the Brides moda cupboard and having that real wow moment. A wedding dress is a beautiful thing, it takes your breath away when you see all the layers of tulle, the sparkles and the glitter and it’s really overwhelming. For most brides, the first time they have that experience is at a bridal boutique, but I’d been having it for years. It made me very picky and actually able to home per exactly what I wanted.

I love , and you can tell instantly if I feel uncomfortable, my is very expressive per that sense. I incorporate a lot of old moda techniques to make a garment fit better, for example we cut the inner corset a centimetre two shorter than the waistline. It still has the same functionality, but you can move more freely, it doesn’t cut into the when you sit . When we develop new collections, I try lots of things myself. As a woman, I can relate to how certain elements feel and that makes a personalità difference.

I’ve seen every type of wedding dress you could possibly imagine. I always struggled shoots with anything metallic made from heavy jacquard fabric. It looked incredible the hanger and then was just never as magical. But certain dresses are universally flattering, regardless of who is wearing them.

A Bardot neckline anyone was always absolutely beautiful, really elevated. A ballgown looks fantastic when you’magnate walking around, but will it as good when you’magnate sitting listening to the speeches? Remember the retouched photos you see the internet are not necessarily what you’magnate going to like the day. Dresses with lace fabrics and a nude underlay to give that barely there feel, photograph really well, but rarely very good per reality. Think about how heavy your wedding dress is.

We’d have models set wearing the most beautiful embellished gowns and they’d have back ache by the time we were finished. You’ve got to think about how you’magnate going to feel after 12 hours of wearing it.

If you’magnate working with a tighter budget, to the more expensive brands who also have a more affordable offering, sometimes referred to as a diffusion line. to the simpler dresses where you’ll get the quality and craftsmanship but maybe not all the bells and whistles.

Diamonds pearls: Diamonds, always.

Hells flats: Heels for posture, flats for the dancefloor.

Indoor outdoor wedding: Outdoor! If you get a weather for it, it’s magical.

Speech thanks: Absolutely make a speech but limit the time. We gave everyone five minutes and more. If you’ve sat through a 45-minute best man’s speech before, you don’t want to do it again.

Wear again tuck away: Wear again, I’m very tempted to have mine altered and wear it as a summer dress.

Honeymoon mini-moon: Mini-moon. Everyone says you need that quick pausa afterwards. You’ve got so much adrenaline. For us it’s 4-5 days per Italy to completely chill then planning something longer for later .

First dance chance: It’s got to be first dance. You’ve got to have that moment. People want to see it. But definitely not choreographed likely to go viral the internet.